Decisions


In life, you make a lot of decisions. Some are good ones while others make you regret for life. So how to you ensure that you have come up with the best decision?


I can tell you it is not easy at all. A lot of factors you have to consider and in the end, if you are still clueless about what you should do, there is always the universal solution: follow your heart. More often than not, this method seems to be a suicidal one, often leading you to the end of the road. Perhaps it is just me, your feel might be more accurate than mine. Nonetheless, people still follow their heart even if they are unsure of what it is to come. Why? Maybe, no matter what they outcome, they can at least say that: I never regret, this is what I would have done if given another chance. Are you sure???


Anyway, why am I talking about all these? Do not be mistaken that I am having some problems in relationships or whatsoever. There aren't any for me to worry about and if there are, I can handle them pretty well, at least that's how I think.


When it comes to buying things, I always think twice. Thanks to some of the bad buys I have had in the past. I am sure you come across this situation. You thought that shirt or pants is a damn good buy, but after wearing it for one or two times, your opinion changes. And you condemn that item into the deepest end of your wardrobe. Something like that sure happens. So please, especially gals, think a little bit more before you buy stuffs ok?


And I tell you, it applies to relationship as well. Frankly, I can't stand people who gets into one just for the sake of getting into one. I mean, you could be hurting the other party in the end you know? All right, if both parties are not serious, then perhaps you can't really say who is not committed or serious about it, because there is none to begin with. I also admit, it is hard to define how serious you should be when it comes to this. You might just want to try it out with the person, maybe it could work out? Then, possibly, the accusation is a bit too harsh. It is a grey area anyway. Whatever it is, try not to be a player or someone you know will end up hurting the other person. I emphasize again, try. I know it is hard.


Decisions, decisions, decisions. It is all up to you.