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Wednesday, October 24, 20079:28 pm
Anger

Anger is a kind of feeling, it affects your emotions. Definitely not a very positive term to be associated with.

I can't recalled when is the last time I am really angry at someone. The most significant incident I can think of is the Burnei Topo Mission few years back when I was still in the National Service. I won't say I am extremely angry at whoever, but in those circumstances, you can't help but feel that way. People were tired, hungry, wet and vulnerable. I can't blame them for throwing temper. Even I felt anguish and helpless. On a brighter note, that's how the army mold a person's character into a stronger one. I have to agree it was a great experience, whether it is necessary or not is another matter. For those who have friends still suffering in it, don't worry too much as I am sure they will become a better person when they are out.


Oh ya, why am I talking about anger? I felt a tinge of it lately when my project mates could not deliver the required work on time. Luckily, all went well in the end. Not going to talk too much about it. But it definitely set me thinking that how important it is to manage your own emotions and mind. It really affects your reactions and the actions you take. Take a step back and think about this. Have you ever thought of undoing some of the actions you have taken? Why you behave in that way at that particular moment?


A lot of time, you just react instinctively. Is that a good thing? Maybe it is. Just want to leave you with this to think about: take control of your mind, it is the most powerful tool you will ever have.

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